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How to Find Meaning and Live a Good Life with Jonathan Fields

November 15, 2022 Leave a Comment

Jonathan Fields is a father, husband, award-winning author, executive producer, and host of one of the top-ranked podcasts in the world, The Good Life Project. He also speaks globally to groups and organizations and his work has been featured widely in the media including The New York Times, The Washington Post, Oprah Magazine, and many others. 

Eric and Jonathan chat about a few different topics relating to how we can bring more meaning and fulfillment into our daily activities that lead to living a good life.

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Jonathan Fields and I Discuss How to Find Meaning and Live a Good Life …

  • How people can bring more meaning and enjoyment to their day job
  • The challenges and importance of setting boundaries for work time
  • Learning to shift focus on how to be more effective rather than putting in more time
  • The idea of investing in yourself when considering career or other life changes
  • Jonathan’s “sparketype” framework
  • Asking the question “How can I be a light in other people’s lives” in both professional and personal lives
  • The process of change and how we can equip ourselves to handle forced change
  • Finding the sweet spot of what motivates us and our approach to behavior change based on our personality
  • How identifying our values can make behavior change more effective and sustainable
  • Building flexibility and creating tolerance in your goals knowing perfection isn’t possible
  • Knowing why we want to change is a critical component to making change and understanding
  • Dealing with low moods while on the path to personal change
  • Learning to be happy and love yourself in your current in your current circumstances

Jonathan Fields Links

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Jonathan Fields check out these other episodes:

Discover Your Sparketype with Jonathan Fields

How to Lead a Happier Life with Dr. Laurie Santos

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How to Embrace Sobriety with Gillian Tietz

November 11, 2022 Leave a Comment

Gillian Tietz is the host of Sober Powered, a top 50 mental health podcast, and the founder of Sober Powered Media, a podcast network of top mental health shows. She has a master’s in biology and worked in research labs in the Boston area. Getting sober in 2019 inspired her to start her podcast to help others understand why addiction happens and how to develop the coping skills they need to stay sober. After 2 years of consistent, hard work she left her career in biochemistry to start her network. 

Eric and Gillian discuss her journey to sobriety and how she shares what she has learned with others on her podcast, Sober Powered.

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Gillian Tietz and I Discuss How to Embrace Sobriety and …

  • Her podcast, Sober Powered
  • How she learned that watching TV did not support the life she wanted
  • The start of her journey to sobriety
  • Struggling with emotions that lead her to destructive habits
  • Her struggles with body image
  • Realizing how drinking caused her mental health to deteriorate
  • How alcohol enhanced the problems she was trying to hide from
  • Learning to accept that moderating drinking wasn’t possible
  • The idea of harm reduction and the controversial opinions
  • Finally seeking professional help when at the start of the quarantine
  • How she wanted to start the podcast to share what she had learned to help others
  • The value of finding support from sober communities on social media
  • How we often don’t see the cause and effect of drinking when you’re in it
  • The effects that alcohol has on the brain and mental health
  • Post acute withdrawal and how the brain needs to learn to re-regulate without alcohol

Gillian Tietz Links

Gillian’s Website

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Facebook

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The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober with Catherine Gray

The Magic of Being Sober with Laura McKowen

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What We Can Learn By Thinking Like a Kid with Scott Hershovitz

November 8, 2022 Leave a Comment

Scott Hershovitz is the Thomas G. and Mabel Long Professor of Law and Professor of Philosophy at the University of Michigan. He directs the University’s Law and Ethics Program and he co-edits Legal Theory.  Scott writes about law and philosophy. His academic work has appeared in the Harvard Law Review, The Yale Law Journal, and Ethics, among other places. In addition, he writes occasional essays about philosophy for the New York Times.  Before joining the Michigan faculty, he  served as a law clerk to Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg of the United States Supreme Court and an attorney-advisor on the appellate staff of the Civil Division of the United States Department of Justice.

Eric and Scott discuss his new book, Nasty, Brutish, and Short: Adventures in Philosophy withMy Kids

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Scott Hershovitz and I Discuss What We Can Learn By Thinking Like a Kid and …

  • His book, Nasty, Brutish, and Short: Adventures in Philosophy with My Kids
  • Defining philosophy as the art of thinking
  • How kids are natural philosophers and ask interesting questions
  • Learning to think critically about our own ideas
  • Distinguishing between what we think we should do and what we want to do
  • The story of the Ship of Theseus and how we can compare it to our own identity
  • How identity can be used as a tool in how we see ourselves in the world in both a negative and positive way
  • Relativism and how we each get our own truth
  • Epistemic bubbles and echo chambers 
  • What we can learn when we talk to people who think differently than us 
  • How we can look at other people with both objective or participant attitudes, depending on the circumstances
  • Tempering our perspectives when we learn about others’ circumstances

Scott Hershovitz Links

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Scott Hershovitz check out these other episodes:

What We Know But Don’t Believe with Steve Hagen

Everyday Courage with Ryan Holiday

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How to Stay Motivated with Ayelet Fishbach

November 4, 2022 Leave a Comment

Ayelet Fishbach, PhD, is the Jeffrey Breakenridge Keller Professor of Behavioral Science and Marketing at the University of Chicago, Booth School of Business . She is the past president of the Society for the Science of Motivation and the International Social Cognition Network. She is an expert on motivation and decision making. Dr. Fishbach’s groundbreaking research on human motivation has won the Society of Experimental Social Psychology’s Best Dissertation Award and Career Trajectory Award, and the Fulbright Educational Foundation Award.

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Ayelet Fishbach and I Discuss How to Stay Motivated and …

  • Her book, Get It Done:  Surprising Lessons from the Science of Motivation
  • The myth of motivation is that we are failures
  • Changing our situations is the most important step in staying motivated
  • Setting goals for our real life situations, not our ideal situations
  • Finding empathy for our future self
  • Intrinsic motivation predicts sustained engagement 
  • Choosing powerful goals that seem exciting and not a chore
  • Approach goals as opposed to avoidance goals
  • How assigning numbers to goals can be powerful
  • The importance of framing our goals
  • Why will power alone does not work
  • Strategies for managing competing goals
  • Remembering that we don’t have to act on our thoughts or ideas
  • The middle problem when it’s hard to see progress and stay motivated
  • Using time brackets for your goals 
  • Why some goals never become habit
  • The role of incentives in achieving goals
  • How important it is to track progress

Ayelet Fishbach Links

Ayelet’s Website

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Facebook

Linked In

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Ayelet Fishbach check out these other episodes:

Tiny Habits for Behavior Change with BJ Fogg

How to Change with Katy Milkman

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What We Can Learn From Our Bad Wolf with Matthew Quick

November 1, 2022 Leave a Comment

Matthew Quick is the New York Times bestselling author of The Silver Linings Playbook—which was made into an Oscar-winning film—and eight other novels. His work has been translated into more than thirty languages, received a PEN/Hemingway Award Honorable Mention, was an LA Times Book Prize finalist, a New York Times Book Review Editors’ Choice, a #1 bestseller in Brazil, a Deutscher Jugendliteratur Preis 2016 (German Youth Literature Prize) nominee, and selected by Nancy Pearl as one of Summer’s Best Books for NPR. The Hollywood Reporter has named him one of Hollywood’s 25 Most Powerful Authors.

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Matthew Quick and I Discuss What We Can Learn From Our Bad Wolf and …

  • His book, We Are the Light
  • What drew him to Jungian analysis and his ideas on synchronicity
  • His healing journey and what he learned about himself
  • Learning to face his pain from a sober light
  • Losing access to a creative part of him when he stopped drinking
  • How his work with his analyst replaced the alcohol in his life
  • The importance of community
  • What the term “father hunger” means
  • His unique relationship with his analyst
  • How he learned to redeem his father
  • The important themes he covers in his latest novels
  • Doing the hard work in the second half of life
  • The respect he has developed for the craft of novel writing

Matthew Quick Links

Matthew’s Website

Sign Up for Matthew’s Monthly Personal Letter (MPL)

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Matthew Quick, check out these other episodes:

Matthew Quick – 2017 Interview

Matthew Quick – 2016

Living Between Worlds with James Hollis

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How to Begin Your Journey to Wholeness with Parker Palmer

October 28, 2022 Leave a Comment

Parker J. Palmer, is the founder and Senior Partner of the Center for Courage & Renewal. He is a world-renowned writer, speaker and activist who focuses on issues in education, community, leadership, spirituality and social change. He has reached millions worldwide through his nine books, including Let Your Life Speak, The Courage to Teach, A Hidden Wholeness, and Healing the Heart of Democracy.

Eric and Parker Palmer discuss some of his latest work on how to begin your journey to wholeness.

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Parker Palmer and I Discuss and …

  • His book, Hidden Wholeness: A Journey Towards an Undivided Life
  • What the idea of “the Soul” means to him
  • His experiences with depression and the lesson he’s learned from it
  • What “the divided life” is
  • The importance of having both community and solitude
  • The idea of “The Circle of Trust”
  • The importance of letting another person work their way to the answer themselves
  • His book, Healing the Heart of Democracy
  • The important role that conflict brings to our form of government
  • The Five Habits of the Heart
  • Eustress is the positive effect of tension
  • The two ways that the heart can break
  • How those with different viewpoints can find common ground
  • The Courage and Renewal Center

Parker Palmer Links

Parker’s Website

Twitter

Facebook

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The Divided Yet Connected Brain with Iain McGilchrist

Jonathan Rauch

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