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How to Have Healthier Relationships with Yourself and Others with Jillian Turecki

September 23, 2022 Leave a Comment

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher, and writer who for the last 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationship with themselves and others.  Jillian is also the host of the podcast, Jillian on Love.  

In this episode, Eric and Jillian discuss her coaching work with people on how to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others.

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Jillian Turecki and I Discuss How to Have Healthy Relationships with Yourself and Others and …

  • Her podcast, Jillian on Love
  • Recognizing that our minds create stories that we can easily get caught up in.
  • The importance of understanding issues in a relationship aren’t just about the other person, but as much about yourself
  • Taking responsibility for your love life is not about blaming yourself
  • How we need to love ourselves before we can love others well
  • Important medicine for relationships:  accountability, forgiveness, and truth
  • The biggest problems in a relationship is trying to change the other person and relying too much on the other person to make you happy
  • Asking “how can I change to help you change?”
  • When a relationship is failing, we often go into survival mode and neglect to see our role in the relationship
  • How we need to keep acknowledging our appreciation to our partners
  • Our “emotional home” is the pattern of what we do when we’re stressed
  • How all of our emotional patterns come from fear
  • The critical role of communication in relationships
  • Remembering that we should be listening more and talking less
  • How you think about your partner’s intent when feeling hurt or angry

Jillian Turecki Links

Jillian’s Website

Jillian’s Podcast

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Jillian Turecki, check out these other episodes:

Dr. Sue Johnson on Navigating Romantic Relationships

Cindy Stulberg on Relationships

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