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The #1Mistake When Trying to Change Behavior

May 14, 2016 1 Comment

The #1 Mistake

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The #1 Mistake Most People Make When Trying to Change Behavior

Starting Too Big

The key to making lasting change is to break things down into really small steps. Most people want to start at point A and jump to Point Z but you don’t get there overnight. Break the new habit down into the smallest possible increments and be specific when planning each step along the way.

In the beginning the most important part of behavior change is to be successful. This increases your motivation and makes you want to do more. If you start small it is much easier to “succeed” and build from there.

For example, let’s say you want to take up a meditation practice. Instead of trying to meditate for 30 minutes a day, start with 3 minutes. Then once that becomes a daily habit increase it to 5 minutes, etc. As Leo Babuta of Zen Habits says “Make it so easy you can’t say no.”

On one of our earlier episodes Dan Millman discussed the importance of “starting small and connecting the dots”. You will be amazed at what a series of small steps done consistently over a period of time will accomplish.

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Keep Trying- Mini Episode

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Real change is possible but it takes time- Keep Trying!

JK Rowling was broke and depressed and her book had been rejected by 12 different publishers. This was right before Harry Potter was finally accepted and hit the big time.
It took me three different attempts to finally achieve sobriety.
Gone with the wind was rejected 38 times. Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was rejected 121 times
Edison famously tried 1000 different approaches before getting the light bulb right.
We often cite these examples as encouragement to keep trying at things like business or success. What if we applied the same principles and tenacity to our internal development? What if we kept trying at emotional and mental change?
We have to do this stuff over and over again, change takes time. There are no easy answers or shortcuts to a life worth living.

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Solomon’s Paradox- Mini Episode

March 6, 2016 1 Comment

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Make Better Decisions by avoiding Solomon’s Paradox

King Solomon was said to be wiser than anyone in Egypt.

What we don’t hear, is that while Solomon was great at giving advice to others, he was notoriously bad at dealing with his own life issues, ultimately bringing ruin upon the kingdom.

If look closely at ourselves, we’ll see that we all have this same flaw. This behavior is so common  it has been given a name — “The Solomon Paradox”.

Igor Grossman’s research that founds the basis for this mini episode.


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The Second Arrow- Mini Episode

February 5, 2016 8 Comments

The second arrow

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The Second Arrow

 “The Buddha once asked a student, “If a person is struck by an arrow, is it painful?” The student replied, “It is.”The Buddha then asked, “If the person is struck by a second arrow, is that even more painful?” The student replied again, “It is.” The Buddha then explained, “In life, we cannot always control the first arrow. However, the second arrow is our reaction to the first. The second arrow is optional.”

Eric describes the parable of the Second Arrow and how it to makes things worse.


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Mini Episode -Consistency

August 16, 2015 3 Comments

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Mini Episode: Consistency

The importance of consistency in behavior change. Consistency of action is critical. It’s amazing what a series of small steps taken day after day can do.

“What you do every day matters than what you do once in awhile”- Gretchen Rubin
“A jug fills drop by drop”- The Buddha

“Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative” -Oscar Wilde

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Mini Episode: No Easy Street

May 17, 2015 Leave a Comment

will always take effort- the one you feed

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Life will always take effort

Most of us have a fantasy that we will hit some point where life won’t take effort. We will read the right book, learn the right meditation, rub the right crystal and our troubles will vanish.

I think this is a fallacy. Life always take effort, and I think this is good news. It’s our unrealistic expectations that cause us problems and cause us pass over what works and chase more snake oil.

Make the effort, life is worth it.

 

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Kino MacGregor

Strand of Oaks

Mike Scott of the Waterboys

Todd Henry- author of Die Empty

Randy Scott Hyde

 

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