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How to Build Realistic Hope in Difficult Times (Part 1) 

November 29, 2023 Leave a Comment

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In this episode, Brandi and Ginny debunk common misconceptions about hope, emphasizing that it is not the same as Pollyanna optimism or wishful thinking. They highlight the active nature of hope, which involves a commitment to making the world better together. They also discuss how hope is not always about striving for something more, but rather finding satisfaction in the present moment while still holding a desire for future change. 

They help listeners to: 

  • Understand the transformative power of hope and how it can positively impact your life
  • Learn the key differences between hope and wishful thinking to cultivate a realistic perspective 
  • Discover the active process of fostering hope, empowering you to take control of your emotions 
  • Uncover practical strategies for cultivating hope even in the face of difficult circumstances
  • Realize the incredible power of hope for driving positive change in your life and mental well-being 

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Responding to Gaslighting in Communities(Part 2) 

November 15, 2023 Leave a Comment

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In this episode, Brandi and Ginny discuss how gaslighting happens in communities, alienating individuals who attempt to disrupt the status quo. Brandi tells the story of systematic gaslighting in a graduate program, which ultimately led to her leaving the school without a degree. In reflection with Ginny years later, she’s able to unpack the strategies used to dismantle self-trust so that others can recognize and respond to this type of abuse effectively in their own lives. 

They help listeners to:

  • Recognize and confront gaslighting in their lives, empowering them to create healthier relationships.
  • Understand the impact of gaslighting on individuals, and learn strategies to reclaim power and self-esteem.
  • Explore the connection between systemic gaslighting and misogyny, racism, and homophobia in order to understand how these dynamics perpetuate unhealthy environments and increase power differentials that already exist.
  • Learn effective strategies for navigating gaslighting, giving you the tools to protect yourself and maintain your autonomy.
  • Understand the importance of support and validation in healing from gaslighting, and discover resources to help you on your journey.

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Stuff to Explore: 

  • Gaslighting Strategy Map referenced in the episode

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How to Recognize Gaslighting in Families (Part 1)

November 1, 2023 Leave a Comment

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In this episode, Ginny and Brandi dive deep into the topic of gaslighting within family relationships. Drawing from Ginny’s personal experience and their collective research, they explore the impact of gaslighting on individuals’ self-trust and identity formation. 

They help listeners to:

  • Gain insight into gaslighting in family dynamics: Understand the manipulative tactics that can occur within family relationships and how they can impact your sense of self.
  • Identify strategies used in gaslighting: Learn to recognize the common techniques used to distort your perception and manipulate your reality.
  • Rebuild self-trust and empowerment: Discover practical ways to rebuild your self-trust and empower yourself in navigating gaslighting dynamics.
  • Understand the impact of gaslighting on self-trust: Realize how gaslighting can erode your confidence and self-belief, and explore tools to reclaim your trust in yourself.
  • Develop coping mechanisms for gaslighting in family relationships: Explore effective strategies to cope with gaslighting in family settings and maintain your mental and emotional well-being.

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Stuff to Explore: 

  • The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Dr. Robin Stern

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How to Survive the Pregnancy from Hell

October 18, 2023 Leave a Comment

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In this episode, Ginny, Brandi and Jen Kemper (Brandi’s sister!) talk about how isolating the pregnancy experience can be – especially when it’s a difficult pregnancy. Jen struggled with an illness called Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) and in this conversation she shares her personal experience with pregnancy, motherhood and this disease. 

They help listeners to:

  • Discover the joys and challenges of motherhood and gain valuable insights on navigating the journey.
  • Find solace in the shared experiences of other pregnant women and realize you’re not alone in the isolating nature of pregnancy.
  • Explore the societal misconceptions surrounding motherhood and gain a deeper understanding of the lack of support and understanding for mothers.
  • Learn strategies for balancing self-sacrifice and personal interests, empowering yourself to prioritize self-care and maintain your personal identity while navigating motherhood.
  • Gain practical tips and advice for finding a supportive community and building connections with other mothers.

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Stuff to Explore: 

  • Hyperemesis Gravidarum: HER Foundation
  • To connect with Jen about HG, email us.

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Are You a Highly Sensitive Person?

October 4, 2023 Leave a Comment

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In this episode, Ginny and Brandi (both HSPs) share their personal experiences of living in a highly sensitive body and discuss insightful, cutting edge research that helps other HSPs take advantage of their unique brain and nervous system. 

They help listeners to:

  • Recognize the importance of sensitivity and how it can be a powerful asset, inspiring a healthy shift in communities where change is necessary 
  • Unearth the difficulties often faced by sensitive people, shedding light on misunderstood aspects of the trait 
  • Understand the unique mental, emotional, and physiological attributes that create the trait of high sensitivity 
  • Explore the many profound strengths of being highly sensitive, including creativity, intuition, and growth mindset 
  • Discover the value of self-acceptance and the power of self-trust as cornerstones of well-being for highly sensitive people 

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Stuff to Explore: 

  • HSP Self-Test
  • Elaine Aron’s Book 
  • Brandi’s website

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From Suffering to Acceptance with La Sarmiento

April 15, 2022 Leave a Comment

La Sarmiento has been practicing Vipassana meditation since 1998. They are the guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington’s BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ Sanghas, a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program and Cloud Sangha, a contributor to the Ten Percent Happier app, and a graduate of Spirit Rock’s Community Dharma Leader Training Program.

In this episode, Eric and La discuss how to move from suffering to acceptance and belonging through mindfulness practices.

But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!

La Sarmiento and I Discuss Suffering and Acceptance and…

  • Finding connection and acceptance with someone who has very different beliefs
  • Their feeling of not belonging in the dominant culture
  • When they decided to claim their belonging
  • Their important work helping teens 
  • How they intentionally doesn’t prepare her Dharma talks ahead of time
  • The questions to ask when suffering 
  • How being mindful doesn’t mean doing it right, it’s being aware of what you’re doing
  • Taking refuge in the Buddha, the Dharma, and Sangha helps them to remember to mindful
  • The practice of learning to be more comfortable with being uncomfortable
  • How the dominant culture needs to better understand inclusion and assimilation
  • How their dog Casey opened her heart

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If you enjoyed this conversation with La Sarmiento, you might also enjoy these other episodes:

How to Build a Home for Your Soul with Najwa Zebian

Parenting a Transgender Child with Paria Hassouri

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