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In This Interview, Anne Bogel and I Discuss…
- Her book, Reading People: How Seeing the World Through the Lens of Personality Changes Everything
- Recent fiction books that she’s read that she loved
- How we all have pain during the course of our lives
- The joy of reading literary fiction
- What is personality?
- The coping strategies we learn vs fundamental personality changes
- How our mind is inclined to work
- The way we see things
- Taking a personality test and answering questions based on how we want to be vs how we really are
- That if you don’t know how you’re really like, you can’t move forward and grow as a person
- Common thoughts, feelings and behavior = our personality type
- Our character and our behavior are two things we can impact and change within ourselves with a lot of effort
- Personality tests not being a limiting thing
- Putting your strengths to work for you
- Putting effort towards things we can change vs things we can’t change
- I’m the kind of person who _____ being a powerful phrase
- Fixed vs Growth mindset
- Highly sensitive people
- The emotional bank account
- Introverts vs Extroverts
- What you do consistently over time matters
- the 5:1 ratio when it comes to positive and negative experiences
- The Enneagram – https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/
Anne Bogel Links
A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he says there are two wolves inside of us which are always at war with each other.
One of them is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear.
The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?”
The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed
The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable.
This parable goes by many names including:
The Tale of Two Wolves
The Parable of the Two Wolves
Which Wolf Do You Feed
Which Wolf are You Feeding
Which Wolf Will You Feed
It also often features different animals, mainly two dogs